4/30/2020
From The Archives: The Bad News

The following article was originally published on this website on August 3, 2015.

This famous houseguest changed the landscape of the American family. He was first welcomed into the home decades ago, and now his influence can be felt around the world.

A few years after I was born, my dad met a stranger who was new to our small Texas town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our family.

The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from then on. As I grew up, I never questioned his place in my family. In my young mind, he had a special niche. My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey. But the stranger… he was our storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures, mysteries, and comedies.

If I wanted to know anything about politics, history, or science, he always knew the answers about the past, understood the present, and even seemed able to predict the future! He took my family to the first major league ball game. He made me laugh, and he made me cry. The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn’t seem to mind.

Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.)

Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home… Not from us, our friends, or any visitors. Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-letter words that burned my ears, made my dad squirm, and my mother blush.

My dad didn’t permit the use of alcohol. But, on a regular basis, the stranger encouraged us to try it. He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly, and pipes distinguished. His comments were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing. I now know that my early concepts about relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom rebuked… And NEVER asked to leave.

More than fifty years have passed since the stranger moved in with our family. He has blended right in and is not nearly as fascinating as he was at first. Still, if you could walk into my parents’ den today, you would still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures.

His name?

We just call him “Television!”

He has a wife now. We call her “Computer.” Their children are “iPad,” “iPhone,” and "Android." 

(This parody came in as feedback on our Young Foundations website. We published the article on youngfoundations.org a few years ago, and the houseguest continues to leave his mark on many families around the world.)

Now Hollywood puts out lots of movies and—and televisions, and so forth, that even uncensored, where they curse and—and—and use God's Name in vain. And—and it used to be it was wrong for the children in the holiness churches to go to—to—to bioscopes or picture shows, and now Satan got one jump ahead, by bringing it right in the house, in the form of television, and then uncensored, and—and so forth. And that's the Satan's way of gradually entering in.

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